Meet a Friend: Doug Smith
Kalispell
is located in Flathead Valley, just south of Glacier National Park. It
is beautiful country, lush and mountainous, though growing up I took it
for granted. I didn’t leave home much until college, never rode
on a plane until I was a high school senior. I attended grade school in
one of the last one-room schools in the area. There were fifteen of us
in eight grades. I was alone in the first grade, and was
‘promoted’ a grade the next year when the teacher forgot to
order books for me. High school was a bit of a shock, with over 350
fellow freshmen. We
attended a rural church during my early years, the Creston Gospel
Chapel, very fundamentalist. I remember asking the Sunday School
teacher questions about a chart he brought to class which detailed the
history of the world, beginning about 4000 BC. In high school I
attended a Presbyterian Church, which was Mom’s idea. She was the
overtly religious one in our family; Dad just tagged along
occasionally, or stayed home and drove his tractor. During
summers, Mom enrolled my brother and me in Mennonite Bible School. I
enjoyed it, and learned a lot of the Bible stories and memorized tons
of verses under the tutelage of various Mennonite parents/teachers. I
especially liked softball during recess. I
went to Montana State University in Bozeman, where I enjoyed the
turmoil and experimentation of the 60’s, studied Philosophy and
Math, met Cheri, and learned about non-Christian religions. I studied
Sanskrit and Chinese, among other things. After
marriage, we attended Presbyterian and Congregational churches. We also
took a two-year Bible study course (teacher training, though I never
taught), which was great. I think I have a good feeling for the big
picture the Bible presents, though I am certainly no expert. I
took a Master’s degree in Oriental Studies at the University of
Arizona in Tucson, which helped me land a job in Tokyo with the Nevada
Department of Economic Development. Cheri and I both loved Japan. When
we returned from Japan in 1974, we bought a house, Cheri became
pregnant, and I had to find a new job rather quickly. I ended up with a
career in insurance and risk management, which has served us well,
though it certainly has never been my passion. Unfortunately, there was
no other career direction which I was passionate about either, so I
guess it didn’t matter. I
now teach risk management seminars nationwide, consult to local Nevada
governments, and teach part-time at UNR, where I finished an MS in
Economics two years ago. I think I am becoming passionate about
economics and finance. These subjects can be used to analyze and
promote changes in many areas of concern to me, such as the
environment, health care, poverty, and social welfare. Cheri
and I have two very cool sons. Corbin is teaching in Qatar, and I look
forward to seeing him when he returns in a few weeks. Ivan, Janelle,
and Cooper (age 5) live in Spokane, and I hope to go sailing with them
in July. Cheri
is also pretty cool. We met on a blind date in college. As I recall, I
was wearing a tuxedo when she first spotted me, and it was love at
first sight. She has a great sense of humor (meaning she laughs at my
jokes), and is a great friend and partner. I
attended Friends Meeting in Hartford, Connecticut over twenty years
ago, and was quite interested but it didn’t seem appropriate for
our family at the time. I attended in Austin, Texas over ten years ago,
again felt I was home, and was pleased to find Cheri was open to
attending as well. We became regulars there, and searched out Reno
Friends as soon as we arrived here, in 1999, even though it meant a
commute from our home in Carson City. I joined this Meeting within a
year or two. I enjoy my involvement with Friends very much, and feel it
has helped me grow a lot spiritually, though I have far to go yet. |